What is your game – relationship faux pas

19 Oct

Today’s reading was posted by my good friend Cathy; the author, writer and designer of this site who is less than perfect but has accomplished so much in the last few  years. You can read her story and so much more on her website, ‘Chapters Of My Life‘ and see for yourself why she is a very special lady…

Good day to all of Kimberly’s readers. I am here to share a post that was printed in my book, ‘13 Chaos‘. It is a book I call my blog bible because it is a series of posts I wrote during a very depressing time which taught me much. I hope that someday, somewhere, I can open other women’s eyes.

Games People Play

In the last few days, I’ve been watching and listening to people. Observing their very essence, how they say things, how they move, how they communicate with other people.  I have come to realize that no matter how we are unique all in our own way, people all play the same game.  Whether at home, work, socializing, friends, family even total strangers.

For years human traditions were, you find a special someone, marry, raise some kids, buy a home and live a full life. Nowadays, relationships are so few and far between, I wonder if people have really lost their values? Many generations have passed and women especially have gotten stronger in their well being and have learned that we are equal with men. However, when the games start who is really in control? For example: A woman can pretty much get a man to do whatever she wants, as long as the man knows there is food, sex and sleep involved (not in that order of course).  On the other hand, when a man wants something from a woman, he will smooth her over with her favourite things, even tell her exactly what she wants to hear and make her believe she is the most important person in his life, especially to get what he wants. So, with that being said, why do we play this game of cat and mouse? Because we can.  I feel people have lost touch with real love and real feelings of the heart. There aren’t enough traditions and values left in relationships and it makes me wonder why our children grow up in this generation not knowing what real love is.

So I ask you: “Why all the games?” Let’s bring back traditional values, morals and good interactions with people. Find your heart, your true existence and fulfill good acts of honesty and kindness.

A Purple Butterfly

© 2011

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